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345.C\u1eaeT \u0110\u1ee8T THAM MU\u1ed0N<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/h1>\n

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<\/span>\u00cdt tham mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3
\nngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u00edt \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

THAM
\nMU\u1ed0N L\u00c0 \u0110AU KH\u1ed4<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

KH\u00d4NG \u0110U\u1ed4I<\/span>
\nTHEO THAM MU\u1ed0N l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p; theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p. S\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. To\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u00fd ngh\u0129a thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a M\u1edf r\u1ed9ng C\u00e1nh C\u1eeda Th\u00e1nh Ph\u00e1p, nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb kim kh\u1ea9u<\/span>
\nc\u1ee7a c\u00e1c geshe Kadampa \u2013 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3<\/span>
\nth\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7m \u2013 l\u00e0 c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t t\u00e1m<\/span>
\nph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian, tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi tham mu\u1ed1n b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o <\/span>cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p hay kh\u00f4ng,<\/span>
\nt\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u xa c\u1ee7a t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian ch\u00ednh<\/span>
\nl\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u00e0<\/span>
\nv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. M\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u01a1ng mong mu\u1ed1n<\/span>
\nxu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf<\/span>
\ngian n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf tham mu\u1ed1n,
\nb\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i hy sinh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf tham mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac
\nv\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. S\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb sung c\u00f4ng; b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp
\nh\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac; v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, gi\u1ed1ng
\nnh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i banh b\u1ecb x\u00ec h\u01a1i. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m
\nth\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1i tim kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1edf trong th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t cu\u1ed9c
\n\u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hieu r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a
\ns\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n
\nt\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a tham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Tham mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1
\nn\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c \u0111au kh\u1ed5, b\u1ec7nh ho\u1ea1n. Do
\nb\u1edfi tham mu\u1ed1n, t\u00e2m ph\u00e1t sinh ra \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0
\nb\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac
\nkh\u00e1c, m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 khi tham mu\u1ed1n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0
\nth\u1ee5 h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n g\u00e1n cho kinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y l\u00e0
\n\u201ch\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.\u201d N\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0
\nh\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111au
\nkh\u1ed5. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u1eb3ng
\nh\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0103n u\u1ed1ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n
\nkh\u00f4ng t\u0103ng l\u00ean m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 suy gi\u1ea3m. Khi bao t\u1eed c\u1ee7a
\nb\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp, khi \u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a
\nb\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5 kh\u1ed5. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ta
\nnh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng
\nth\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac; nh\u01b0ng khi nh\u1eadn ra n\u00f3, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5 kh\u1ed5. Khi \u0111au kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e1n cho
\nl\u00e0 \u201cl\u1ea1c th\u00fa \u201d v\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 l\u1ea1c th\u00fa, nh\u01b0ng
\nkhi b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac
\nd\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nmh \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh m\u00e0 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi Ni\u1ebft B\u00e0n, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o. S\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh n\u00e0y, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t tham mu\u1ed1n , cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u Gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n s\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh n\u00e0y. Ngay t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean
\nb\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng
\nv\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian, kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n,
\nb\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n an b\u00ecnh n\u00e0y trong s\u1ef1
\nt\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n
\nkinh nghi\u1ec7m n\u00f3 v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1edfi hy sinh tham mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang hy sinh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i g\u00ec, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1
\nc\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian.
\nKh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a tham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0
\n\u0111au kh\u1ed5, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3
\nm\u1ed9t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng
\nth\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1edd hy sinh t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng
\nv\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian, nh\u1edd gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n
\nkh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh \u0111\u00edch
\nth\u1ef1c, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng
\ngi\u00e1c quan b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i no; n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n. V\u1edbi t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n s\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh n\u00e0y.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh ngo\u00e0i da khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ng\u1ee9a. \u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu c\u01a1n ng\u1ee9a, b\u1ea1n
\ng\u00e3i nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi n\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn.
\nH\u01a1n l\u00e0 gai m\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng g\u00e3i mang l\u1ea1i cho
\nb\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt g\u00ec th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n
\nsao? T\u1eeb b\u1ecf b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n sao? C\u00f3
\ntham mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh ngo\u00e0i da n\u00e0y.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tham <\/span>mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n <\/span>\u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n. S\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng <\/span>c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n. N\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e2n n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 <\/span>sinh t\u1eed lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i n\u00e0y, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o n\u00ean b\u1edfi <\/span>s\u1ef1 m\u00ea l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 nghi\u1ec7p v\u00e0 b\u1ecb h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng<\/span>
\nc\u1ee7a m\u00ea l\u1ea7m l\u00e0m \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kinh <\/span>nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 n\u00f3ng l\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u00f3i kh\u00e1t, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n<\/span>
\n\u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c. Ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo \u00e2u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 <\/span>t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ta, hay ti\u00eau ph\u00ed qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec gi\u1edd v\u00e0<\/span>
\nti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c\u00a0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ta. Ch\u00fang<\/span>
\nta b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec th\u00e2n x\u00e1c n\u00e0y cho c\u00f3<\/span>
\nv\u1ebb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. T\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f3c xu\u1ed1ng <\/span>t\u1edbi ng\u00f3n ch\u00e2n ta, ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u <\/span>\u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec3m cho th\u00e2n x\u00e1c n\u00e0y. Ta qu\u00e1 phung ph\u00ed <\/span>\u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00fd b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a ta trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3.<\/span>
\nTuy nhi\u00ean, khi b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh, ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng<\/span>
\nthu\u1ed1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh cho <\/span>b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 sinh <\/span>t\u1eed n\u00e0y th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n sao? Khi \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n<\/span>
\ns\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng<\/span>
\nv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tham mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u an b\u00ecnh trong t\u00e2m \u2013 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh.
\nC\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm l\u1ea1c
\nth\u00fa sinh t\u1eed trong vi\u1ec7c tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i
\nt\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng
\nvi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m bao nhi\u00eau c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eafm t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec n\u00f3
\nc\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng
\ncon s\u00f3ng trong \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n
\n\u0111\u1ee3t n\u00e0y sau \u0111\u1ee3t kia, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao
\ngi\u1edd ng\u1eebng d\u1ee9t.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean,h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u1ec7 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u00e1c quan b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n
\nt\u00e1nh l\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5; v\u00e0 k\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec, ch\u1eb3g c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eb1m
\n\u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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\nTHAM MU\u1ed0N TH\u00cc \u00cdT \u0110AU KH\u1ed4<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9cNagarjuna (Long Th\u1ecd) gi\u1ea3ng trong b\u00e0i k\u1ec7 m\u00e0 Dromtonpa th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ec t\u1ee5ng:
\n\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c hay m\u1ea5t; s\u01b0\u1edbng hay kh\u1ed5; vinh hay nh\u1ee5c; khen haych\u00ea: t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m ta. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ta ch\u00fang
\n\u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t,
\n\u0111au kh\u1ed5, nghe nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh kh\u00f4ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb, b\u1ecb
\nti\u1ebfng x\u1ea5u (nh\u1ee5c), b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch (ch\u00ea) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3
\ntr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u
\nn\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n
\n\u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea1t
\n(\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c), h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, nghe nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh hay, c\u00f3
\nti\u1ebfng t\u1ed1t (vinh) v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i l\u00e0
\nnh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u01b0 nhau; ch\u00fang ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n
\n\u0111\u1ec1. Gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.
\nNh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1? V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0
\nt\u00e2m tham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0
\nv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng
\nph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1; t\u00e2m b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o b\u00e8 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m
\ncho vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nhm\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n <\/span>l\u00e0m cho vi\u1ec7c s\u1edf h\u1eefu b\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y\u00a0 v\u1eadt <\/span>ch\u1ea5t, s\u1ef1\u00a0 ti\u1ec7n nghi tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, \u00e2m thanh th\u00fa v\u1ecb,<\/span>
\nl\u1eddi khen\u00a0 \u2013 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/span>
\nN\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tham mu\u1ed1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m th\u1ebf <\/span>t\u1ee5c, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i<\/span>
\nt\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t<\/span>\u0111\u00eam kia khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i th\u00ec b\u1ea5t <\/span>th\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y v\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t con<\/span>
\nmu\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed1t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m th\u1ebf<\/span>
\nt\u1ee5c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, tham mu\u1ed1n m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t s\u1ef1<\/span>
\nti\u1ec7n nghi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh v\u00ec <\/span>b\u1ecb mu\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed1t.<\/span> <\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t <\/span>con mu\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ed1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec nguy <\/span>hi\u1ec3m, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh tr\u1ea7m <\/span>tr\u1ecdng. Con mu\u1ed7i ch\u1ec9 h\u00fat m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdt m\u00e1u nh\u1ecf <\/span>x\u00edu \u1eeb th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n con <\/span>mu\u1ed7i c\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea7y m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n <\/span>b\u1ecb cho\u00e1ng v\u00e1ng. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn con<\/span>
\nmu\u1ed7i v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00eam. Ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau, b\u1ea1n ph\u00e0n <\/span>n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 con mu\u1ed7i su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y: \u201c\u0110\u00eam\u00a0 qua t\u00f4 <\/span>m\u1ea5t ng\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3!\u201d M\u1ea5t<\/span>
\nng\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam, hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed v\u00e0i ti\u1ebfng<\/span>
\n\u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3, th\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t vi\u00ean<\/span>
\nng\u1ecdc qu\u00fd. B\u1ea1n b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>
\nm\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t<\/span>
\ns\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1<\/span>
\nnh\u1ecf b\u00e9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh to l\u1edbn.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng <\/span>ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen <\/span>t\u1edbi h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t l\u00ean khi\u00a0 \u0111i ngang qua <\/span>h\u1ecd, ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t hai l\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n k\u00ednh l\u00e0 <\/span>nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mong ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 nghe,<\/span>th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 gh\u00ea<\/span>
\ng\u1edbm trong t\u00e2m h\u1ecd. Ho\u1eb7c n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eb7ng cho<\/span>
\nh\u1ecd m\u00f3n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cung c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n k\u00ednh, d\u00f9 <\/span>c\u00f3 c\u1ed1 \u00fd hay\u00a0 kh\u00f4ng, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5<\/span>
\nto l\u1edbn.<\/span> <\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 <\/span>nhi\u1ec1u mong \u0111\u1ee3i, qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 <\/span>th\u1ebf, ngay c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t <\/span>h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt l\u00fd nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch c\u0169ng <\/span>tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh to l\u1edbn. C\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u0169i t\u00ean<\/span>
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eafn v\u00e0o tim h\u1ecd.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00e2n h\u1eadn th\u00ecnh l\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Th\u00ecnh l\u00ecnh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. G\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t <\/b><\/span><\/span>h\u1ecd tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y thanh th\u1ea3n v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh, gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp \u2013
\nph\u1ed3ng c\u0103ng ra, tai v\u00e0 m\u0169i h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ecf b\u1eebng l\u00ean
\nv\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00e2n m\u00e1u n\u1ed5i r\u00f5 tr\u00ean tr\u00e1n h\u1ecd. B\u1ea5t th\u00ecnh l\u00ecnh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 t\u00e1nh kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c th\u00f4
\nl\u1ed7 v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi cang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i v\u00e0 k\u00ednh
\ntr\u1ecdng th\u00ec khi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang n\u1ed7i
\n\u0111au kh\u1ed5 trong l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. Nh\u1eefng
\n\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec
\nc\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. C\u00e0ng tham mu\u1ed1n
\nth\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea1t v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, s\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7n nghi, h\u1ea1nh
\nph\u00fac, nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh th\u00edch \u00fd v\u00e0 l\u1eddi khen, th\u00ec khi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch,
\nng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00e0ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N \u1ebfu b\u1ea1n hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb, t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4n k\u00ednh, t\u1eed t\u1ebf, v\u00e0
\nlu\u00f4n\u00a0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t
\nh\u00f4m h\u1ecd b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c\u00a0 tr\u00e1i \u00fd
\nnh\u1ecf b\u00e9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf t\u00ed x\u00edu \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o
\nn\u00ean m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin n\u1ed5i trong tim
\nb\u1ea1n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t ca nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1eadn t\u00e2m th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c, t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n qu\u00e1
\nm\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. C\u00e0ng \u00edt tham mu\u1ed1n
\nb\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec s\u1ebd
\nc\u00e0ng \u00edt v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p b\u1ed1n
\n\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n. \u00cdt tham mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3
\nngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u00edt \u0111au kh\u1ed5. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1eaft
\n\u0111\u1ee9t vi\u1ec7c b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y,
\nth\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn khi kinh
\nnghi\u1ec7m s\u1ef1 ch\u00ea bai ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch hay kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m
\nluy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i hay th\u1ecd nh\u1eadn c\u00e1c s\u1ef1
\nv\u1eadt.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00f3, khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd b\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n d\u1ec5\u00a0th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi
\nv\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, th\u00ec
\nb\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi
\nb\u1ea1n \u1ea5y thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng
\ng\u00ec b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n. Tr\u00e1i tim b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn.
\nT\u00e2m b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh v\u00e0 y\u00ean b\u00ecnh. Nh\u1edd c\u1eaft
\n\u0111\u1ee9t s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o b\u1ed1n
\n\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng
\ng\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec khi x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh
\nhu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n.\u00a0 Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o b\u1ed1n
\n\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y, t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n khi g\u1eb7p b\u1ed1n
\n\u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c g\u1eb7p b\u1ed1n
\n\u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m
\nphi\u1ec1n b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai khen ng\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n, ch\u1eb3ng
\nth\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec; n\u1ebfu\u00a0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00ea bai
\nb\u1ea1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n r\u1ed1i
\nlo\u1ea1n. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i v\u00e0 t\u00e2m
\nb\u1ea1n an b\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u0103ng tr\u1ea7m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y
\nsan b\u1eb1ng t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef t\u00e2m an b\u00ecnh khi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra? B\u1ea1n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 t\u00e2m ra sao \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c
\nkinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m <\/b><\/span><\/span>b\u1ea1n r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1edd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng
\nvi\u1ec7c b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o b\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng
\n\u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. B\u1ea1n
\nph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a
\nb\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng mong mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y v\u00e0 t\u1eeb
\nb\u1ecf s\u1ef1 b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o ch\u00fang. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc
\nc\u0103n b\u1ea3n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng
\nph\u00e1p n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Geshe Chen-ngawa san
\nb\u1eb1ng t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ee5ng b\u00e0i k\u1ec7 sau:<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi
\n\u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 khi n\u00f3
\nphi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c: m\u1ecdi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eafm
\nt\u1edbi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u01b0 thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9c.
\n\u0110\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u1ec9
\nl\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m. H\u00e3y ch\u1eb7t
\n\u0111\u1ee9t nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng-\u0111\u1ea1o
\n\u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1o
\n\u0111\u1ee9c c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng-\u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u sau c\u00f9ng \u00e1m<\/span>
\nch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n v\u00e0 ng\u1eef<\/span>
\nv\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng; nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh<\/span>
\n\u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh<\/span>
\n\u0111\u1ed9ng \u201ckh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111o\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span>
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.\u201d<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c hay
\nnh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 tu h\u00e0nh t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c ta l\u00e0 tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i
\nb\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0
\nb\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng mong mu\u1ed1n. H\u00e3y mong
\n\u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n k\u00ednh.
\nTh\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t tham
\nmu\u1ed1n, l\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc t\u1ed1i h\u1ea3o. Khi \u0111\u00e3 tu h\u00e0nh t\u00e2m ta
\n\u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mong
\nmu\u1ed1n, khi \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1
\nx\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u00fa s\u1ed1c cho ch\u00fang ta;
\nn\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ta t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec ta \u0111ang tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd n\u00f3.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi <\/span>hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft Ph\u00e1p, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh thi\u1ec1n <\/span>\u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c<\/span>
\n(kh\u1ed5), nh\u1eefng \u00e2m thanh kh\u00f4ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb, s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh<\/span>
\nch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n<\/span>
\n\u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/span> <\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n <\/span>kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m b\u00e1m <\/span>luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, nh\u1eefng \u00e2m <\/span>thanh th\u00fa v\u1ecb, s\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng<\/span>
\nth\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng<\/span>
\nn\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 <\/span>b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 th\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi hi\u1ec3u Ph\u00e1p. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng an <\/span>b\u00ecnh \u2013 n\u00f3 \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u00e2m b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn <\/span>v\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a tham <\/span>mu\u1ed1n. Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen \u2013 \u201cAnh qu\u00e1 th\u00f4ng minh,\u201d \u201cAnh <\/span>n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t hay,\u201d \u201cAnh hi\u1ec3u Ph\u00e1p th\u1eadt uy\u00ean th\u00e2m\u201d \u2013 t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n <\/span>v\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1eb9t trong s\u1ef1 ng\u1ee3i khen v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ef1<\/span>
\ndo n\u1eefa<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb gi\u00e2y x\u00edch<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/p>\n

tr\u00f3i ch<\/span><\/span><\/b>. <\/span>\u1eb7t, t\u00e2m b\u1ecb c\u1ed9t tr\u00f3i b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 tham<\/span>
\nluy\u1ebfn. T\u00e2m b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1eb9t gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 keo<\/span>
\nd\u00ednh v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt. Ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0\u00a0 con<\/span>
\nb\u01b0\u1edbm \u0111\u00eam bay v\u00e0o ng\u1ecdn n\u1ebfn n\u00f3ng ch\u1ea3y: to\u00e0n<\/span>
\nth\u00e2n n\u00f3, \u0111\u00f4i c\u00e1nh v\u00e0 t\u1ee9 chi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1eabm<\/span>
\n\u01b0\u1edbt trong ng\u1ecdn n\u1ebfn s\u00e1p. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 t\u1ee9 chi<\/span>
\nc\u1ee7a con b\u01b0\u1edbm m\u1ecfng manh t\u1edbi n\u1ed7i h\u1ebft<\/span>
\ns\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ee1 ch\u00fang ra kh\u1ecfi ch\u1ea5t<\/span>
\ns\u00e1p n\u1ebfn. Hay gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0\u00a0 m\u1ed9t con ru\u1ed3i<\/span>
\nv\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1eb9t trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ea1ng nh\u1ec7n: t\u1ee9 chi<\/span>
\nc\u1ee7a n\u00f3 b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5n ch\u1eb7t trong m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi,<\/span>
\nv\u00e0 g\u1ee1 ch\u00fang ra kh\u1ecfi ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/span>
\nHay nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng con ki\u1ebfn trong m\u1eadt ong. Tham luy\u1ebfn <\/span>l\u00e0 t\u00e2m b\u1ecb v\u01b0\u1edbng k\u1eb9t v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i<\/span>
\nt\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

THAM
\nMU\u1ed0N L\u00c0 NGU\u1ed2N M\u1ea0CH C\u1ee6A M\u1eccI V\u1ea4N
\n\u0110\u1ec0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 L\u1ea1t ma Atisha \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp trong \u0110\u1ea1i Lu\u1eadn gi\u1ea3ng
\nv\u1ec1 Con \u0110\u01b0\u1eddng Ti\u1ec7m th\u1ee9 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi
\nGi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9:<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta theo \u0111u\u1ed5i trong hy v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u1ea1i
\nnguy\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tham mu\u1ed1n
\nch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a d\u1eabn t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7ac vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tham
\nmu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n. B\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng
\nli\u00ean t\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a sinh t\u1eed. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0
\nvi\u1ec7c m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh ung th\u01b0 hay AIDS kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0
\nv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh. N\u1ebfu so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n
\n\u0111\u1ec1 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n, th\u00ec ung th\u01b0 v\u00e0 AIDS kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0
\ng\u00ec c\u1ea3; ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang
\n\u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Trong khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi
\nng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u
\ng\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tham mu\u1ed1n trong
\n\u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb
\n\u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tham mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n vi sinh t\u1eed khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean kinh
\nnghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a s\u00e1u c\u00f5i. Li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u2013
\nb\u1ea5t t\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i
\ntham mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c
\ns\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 an b\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. Vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i
\ntham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n
\nv\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a
\nsinh t\u1eed trong m\u1ed9t trong s\u00e1u c\u00f5i.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh t\u01b0 <\/span>t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c mang <\/span>l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kinh\u00a0 \u00e3i. Li\u00ean <\/span>t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y sang \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 mang <\/span>l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con<\/span>
\nng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m; n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p<\/span>
\n\u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng<\/span>
\nv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0T\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p <\/span>th\u1ebf gian, s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c <\/span>\u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng <\/span>nh\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian th\u00ec <\/span>nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n <\/span>kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian l\u00e0 c\u00e1i <\/span>c\u1ed9t tr\u00f3i b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi sinh t\u1eed th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span>
\nn\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ebft h\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n<\/span>
\nl\u00e0m l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a sang m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c. T\u00e2m th\u1ee9c <\/span>b\u1ea1n\u00a0 nh\u1eadn th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n h\u1ea3o kh\u00e1c hay \u0111i<\/span>
\nt\u1edbi m\u1ed9t c\u00f5i thu\u1ea7n t\u1ecbnh. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb<\/span>
\ngi\u1ebft th\u00ec nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n (duy\u00ean)<\/span>
\n\u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n sang m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c.<\/span> <\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu <\/span>b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng <\/span>th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p, th\u00ec m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u1eb3ng ai gi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 <\/span>b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1g t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m n\u0103m, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng <\/span>xuy\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00fd b\u00e1u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n <\/span>\u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u00f5i<\/span>
\nth\u1ea5p; b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u00e1i sinh may m\u1eafn c\u1ee7a<\/span>
\nb\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y n\u00ean nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u00e1i sinh<\/span>
\nb\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/span>
\nPh\u00e1p. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u1ea1o th\u00eam nghi\u1ec7p ti\u00eau <\/span>c\u1ef1c, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i<\/span>
\ns\u1ed1ng trong nh\u1eefng c\u00f5i th\u1ea5p v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111au<\/span>
\nkh\u1ed5 trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/span>
\nv\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f2n tai h\u1ea1i h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u <\/span>n\u1ebfu so v\u1edbi k\u1ebb th\u00f9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n <\/span>thu\u1ea7n gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u00edch d\u1eabn
\nc\u1ee7a L\u1ea1t ma Tsong Khapa v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i
\ns\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp:<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Thammu\u1ed1n mang l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c. B\u1edfi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i tham mu\u1ed1n, t\u00e2m tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f4 n\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng an b\u00ecnh.<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e0ng tr\u0103m v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n. Khi tham
\nmu\u1ed1n th\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, ta r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 tr\u1edf n\u00ean
\ns\u00e2n h\u1eadn, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. B\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn c\u00e0ng
\nm\u1ea1nh th\u00ec s\u00e2n h\u1eadn ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi c\u00e0ng m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t. N\u1ebfu
\nb\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn khi ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn b\u1ecb b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i nh\u01b0ng \u00edt h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. S\u00e2n h\u1eadn, ganh t\u1ecb v\u00e0 v.v.. ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi trong m\u1ed1i li\u00ean quan v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn. Do b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. Khi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00f5i th\u1ea5p.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb tham mu\u1ed1n \u00e1p \u0111\u1ea3o, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb v\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ee5c b\u1edfi tham mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ec1n
\n\u0111\u1ecbnh. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u00fd ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u00e1nh
\nKh\u00f4ng, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n th\u1ebf, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 c\u00f3
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Khi t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n
\ny\u00ean t\u0129nh v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh an, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn n\u00e0o
\n\u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3; nh\u01b0ng khi t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb v\u1ea9n
\n\u0111\u1ee5c, m\u1ed9t m\u00e0n s\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00f9 d\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bao
\nph\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ec1n
\n\u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 t\u00e1nh Kh\u00f4ng. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng
\nth\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a
\ns\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n tham mu\u1ed1n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt, b\u1ea1n
\ntr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t kh\u1ed5 s\u1edf n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3
\ng\u1ea7n n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thanh th\u1ea3n; th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0 th\u1ea3n trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. V\u00ec t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0 th\u1ea3n do s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n n\u00ean m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3
\nc\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i hay th\u01b0 d\u00e3n v\u1eadt l\u00fd.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft
\nc\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng
\nng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi
\nnghi\u1ec7n ma t\u00fay. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean
\nkh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5, ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang, t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng
\nth\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa,
\nh\u1ecd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 tr\u00ed nh\u1edb
\nc\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt\u00a0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb t\u00e2m b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n,
\nt\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u \u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian,
\nb\u1edfi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u
\nki\u1ec7n (duy\u00ean) cho b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt. R\u1ed3i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb
\nb\u1ec7nh trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m, c\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 hao t\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5ng
\nl\u1ed3 kh\u00f4ng ai mong mu\u1ed1n h\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0n \u0111\u00f4 la. Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang
\n\u0111\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0103n c\u1eafp. T\u00e2m b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf
\nn\u00ean r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n; b\u1ea1n suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf
\nn\u00ean \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng. Khi \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n
\nr\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gi\u1edd v\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c trong c\u00e1c
\ncu\u1ed9c t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3
\nk\u1ebft th\u00fac cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi trong m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7n t\u1ebf b\u1ea7n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 c\u0103n nguy\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng
\nth\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u1ea5y
\nkhi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t
\nkh\u1ecfi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian, khi
\nb\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p, s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t
\nnhi\u1ec1u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111e ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u0103m n\u00e0y sang n\u0103m kh\u00e1c,
\nkhi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n
\nc\u1ee7a v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 kh\u00f3
\nkh\u0103n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u00e2u lo
\nv\u00e0 t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf
\ngian. N\u1ebfu ngay t\u1eeb l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1ea1n g\u00ecn gi\u1eef
\n\u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian, th\u00ec t\u1ea5t
\nc\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n
\n\u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 t\u1ed5n ph\u00ed kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng
\nx\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i kinh nghi\u1ec7m
\nch\u00fang.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ec7nh AIDS, n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian sai s\u1eed. Khi t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb l\u00e2y
\nnhi\u1ec5m AIDS qua \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c r\u1eb1ng
\ntr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ra sao khi b\u1eaft
\n\u0111\u1ea7u kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng, m\u1ed9t
\ns\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tham mu\u1ed1n
\nt\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Trong th\u1eddi gian
\nc\u1ee7a tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00f4-\u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c
\n\u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00ean c\u01a1n
\ns\u1ed1t, \u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu \u1edbt.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n th\u00ec m\u1ecdi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 b\u1ec7nh AIDS
\nv\u00e0 ung th\u01b0, xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m
\nph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan h\u1ec7 th\u00ec c\u0169ng
\nth\u1ebf: c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c
\n\u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3,
\nnh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9
\nti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecba
\nng\u1ee5c \u2013 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c
\nth\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ta kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c v\u1edbi
\nm\u1ed9t th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c \u1edf
\nkh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n
\nb\u1ecb s\u1eadp b\u1eaby, ng\u1ea1t th\u1edf. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n
\nkh\u00f4ng th\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Khi tham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n,
\n\u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 suy nh\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7n kinh v\u00e0
\nnh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 t\u1eed x\u1ea3y ra.
\nM\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc Ph\u00e1p \u1edf Th\u1ee5y
\nS\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00e0
\n\u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. Anh ta treo c\u1ed5 t\u1ef1 v\u1eabn. T\u00f4i
\nngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng anh ta \u0111\u00e3 nghe m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng Ph\u00e1p
\nnh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh hay nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.
\nAnh ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t, ki\u1ebfm
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng anh c\u00f3
\nnh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

B\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ,lo\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3
\nnhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng
\nt\u1ef1 v\u1eabn, v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t \u0111\u1eddi
\nng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y
\nl\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng tham
\nmu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf gian.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Geshe Kadampa Gonpawa,
\nng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u th\u1ecb v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9ng
\nng\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i:<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ta th\u1ecd nh\u1eadn b\u1ed1n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a
\ns\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, ti\u1ebfng t\u1ed1t, v\u00e0
\ns\u1ef1 khen ng\u1ee3i t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c
\nth\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p
\nth\u1ebf gian, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong
\n\u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c trong nh\u1eefng
\n\u0111\u1eddi sau. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y mang l\u1ea1i
\nb\u1ed1n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec ta
\nc\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c g\u00ec ngay c\u1ea3
\ntrong \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y.\u00a0<\/b><\/i><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf
\ngian mang l\u1ea1i b\u1ed1n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc
\ncu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd d\u1eabn t\u1edbi b\u1ed1n k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 trong vi\u1ec7c kinh doanh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7t h\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0y sau th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c; do b\u1edfi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e0ng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng
\nh\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf gian. Sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng
\nc\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t, v\u00e0 nghi\u1ec7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i
\n\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. Ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y
\nb\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb h\u00e0nh kh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t
\nng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ec9 ph\u00fa; ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m sau, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m sao tr\u1ea3 ti\u1ec1n thu\u00ea nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n. To\u00e0n b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5.\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e1m ph\u00e1p
\nth\u1ebf gian. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u s\u1ef1
\nti\u1ec7n nghi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n v\u00e0
\nti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p th\u1ebf g\u1ee7<\/b><\/span><\/span>ian. Do s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng <\/b>cu<\/b>a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi h\u00f4m qua c\u00f2n gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e0i ch\u00e1nh, b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd h\u00f4m nay ph\u1ea3i b\u1eadn t\u00e2m ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c gia \u0111\u00ecnh.
\nAnh ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0103n hayng\u1ee7.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed9m c\u1eafp m\u1ed9t, hai, hay ba l\u1ea7n,ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n th\u1ebf, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i
\nki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t tham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c
\ntr\u1ed9m c\u1eafp th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3
\nb\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1eaft. Cho d\u00f9 sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 ra sao,
\nb\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u1eadp \u0111i l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i n\u00f3,
\nm\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kia ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t
\nv\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn. Khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a
\ns\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00f3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi r\u1ea5t
\nnhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng ao \u01b0\u1edbc.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi tham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. C\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t s\u1ef1 b\u00e1m
\nluy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay m\u1ed9t
\nng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi t\u00e2m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng nghi\u1ec7p ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. N\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i
\ncho ta s\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin n\u1ed5i. Th\u00f4ng
\nth\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec b\u1edfi b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i
\nt\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nhi\u1ec1u
\nnghi\u1ec7p ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u
\nch\u00fang sinh kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1edd c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t b\u00e1m luy\u1ebfn, b\u1ea1n
\nng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c
\nc\u00f5i th\u1ea5p.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

An b\u00ecnh v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t
\nm\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng tham mu\u1ed1n. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung
\nv\u00e0o s\u1ef1 an b\u00ecnh \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3
\nth\u1ec3 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c kinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1
\ngi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi tham mu\u1ed1n. Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec. Khi b\u1ea1n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0y, an b\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u00e0y, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi
\ntr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u2013 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng vui th\u00fa nh\u01b0 khi b\u1ea1n
\nnh\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1edd gi\u1ea5y v\u1ec7 sinh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n\u00a0 t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng hay \u0111i\u00ean lo\u1ea1n.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y, cho d\u00f9 g\u1eb7p bao nhi\u00eau v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a
\nn\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p. V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 t\u00e2m ta, l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n. H\u00e3y qu\u00ean vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u1ed5 h\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u00e1p thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay;\u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m
\nch\u1ee7\u00a0 tham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 an b\u00ecnh n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh
\nph\u00fac c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n
\nch\u1eb7n s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Con Tiep<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Trich Phat Hoc<\/p>\n

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