{"id":7272,"date":"2021-08-19T19:36:19","date_gmt":"2021-08-19T19:36:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/niemphatduonganduong.org\/diendanphap\/?p=7272"},"modified":"2021-08-20T14:04:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-20T14:04:58","slug":"ban-tanh-cua-tam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/niemphatduonganduong.org\/diendanphap\/ban-tanh-cua-tam\/","title":{"rendered":"Ban Tanh Cua Tam"},"content":{"rendered":"
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<\/i><\/b>\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang con, khi nghe n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a t\u00e2m, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong n\u1ec1n v\u0103n ho\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con. Ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u201cl\u00e0m an \u0111\u1ecbnh\u201d t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m ch\u00fang con.<\/span><\/i><\/strong><\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. T\u00e2m ta l\u00e0 v\u1eadt quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb t\u00e2m, v\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai \u01b0a th\u00edch m\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y ta \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb t\u00e2m. T\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fa cho s\u1ef1 \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m, v\u00e0 qua nh\u1eefng \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00e0 theo c\u00e1cn n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra nghi\u1ec7p s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, t\u1ef1 th\u00e2n \u00fd th\u1ee9c th\u00ec thu\u1ea7n t\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng che ch\u01b0\u1edbng. Nh\u01b0ng thay v\u00ec nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00e2n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng do nh\u1eefng thi\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd t\u1eeb v\u00f4 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ki\u1ebfp \u2013 b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do h\u1ee3p l\u00fd n\u00e0o. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 minh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5u su\u1ed1t ch\u00e2n l\u00fd. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ea5u su\u1ed1t ch\u00e2n l\u00fd th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3, v\u00e0 khi b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, s\u1ef1 ganh t\u1ecb v\u00e0 tranh \u0111ua v\u00e0 v.v.. Theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t t\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u00f4 nhi\u1ec5m t\u00edch t\u1eadp.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u00e2n h\u1eadn, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft h\u1ecd n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang con r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng. T\u1ea1i sao th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf khi con s\u00e2n h\u1eadn?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong Ph\u1eadt Gi\u00e1o ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau. Nh\u01b0ng ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n th\u00ec m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb t\u00e2m, v\u00e0 t\u00e2m c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu \u2013 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u1edf trong b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e1nh Kh\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1edfi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n t\u1eeb t\u00e2m, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft l\u1eabn nhau. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i n\u1ec1n hay th\u00f9ng ch\u1ee9a, v\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00e0 v\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9a. Th\u00f9ng ch\u1ee9a v\u00e0 v\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9a n\u1ed1i k\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau th\u1eadt ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd, v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao khi t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt l\u00fd. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u1ebf n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n th\u00ec t\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t do s\u1ef1 nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u theo s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n b\u1edfi chi\u1ec1u theo s\u00e2n h\u1eadn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n x\u00e1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 bu\u1ed3n kh\u1ed5 trong t\u00e2m m\u00e0 r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e0y ng\u01b0\u1eddi minh tri\u1ebft, s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00f5i \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u00fang con nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng s\u00e2n h\u1eadn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng s\u00e2n h\u1eadn l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, trong nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i h\u1eadu, th\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3. V\u00e0o l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00ec t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u00f4i, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u1eefa, r\u1ed3i khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 c\u1ea3.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

K\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t xem s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi, n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, n\u00f3 \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n s\u00e2n h\u1eadn, ch\u00ednh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n hay h\u1ecd l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, v\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m. B\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 c\u00e0ng l\u00fac c\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng l\u00fac c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. Khi \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1t ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn, v\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Theo c\u00e1c n\u00e0y gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn chinh ph\u1ee5c.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t xem s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u, t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 trong b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn, th\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m. N\u00f3 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00ec r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf Ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 n\u00f3, sau \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u00f3<\/i>.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n L\u1ea1t Ma Yeshe n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang con trong m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c.\u201d \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nghe h\u01a1i s\u1ed1c, b\u1edfi gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn, ch\u00fang con ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c. V\u00ec sao n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c? Ch\u00fang con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn n\u00f3 ra sao?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n cho d\u00f9 tham mu\u1ed1n t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb d\u00ednh m\u1eafc nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i ch\u1ed1n, v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m, b\u1ea1n h\u1eefu v\u00e0 v.v.. nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1i. Khi b\u1ea1n u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1i, c\u00e0ng u\u1ed1ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng kh\u00e1t, v\u00ec th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n. Thay v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n n\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n th\u00eam n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ti\u1ec7t tr\u1eeb tham mu\u1ed1n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady t\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n? Ngay c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed, ch\u00fang con hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang con v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n. T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta qu\u00e1 quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi n\u00f3. B\u1edfi t\u1eeb v\u00f4 thu\u1ef7 \u2013 theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o l\u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u2013 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb m\u00ea ho\u1eb7c trong sinh t\u1eed, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u1eebng nu\u00f4ng chi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00ednh l\u00edu v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c hay u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m linh m\u00e0 t\u1eeb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m y h\u1ecdc hay s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng thu\u1ed1c l\u00e1 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y n\u00ean b\u1ec7nh ung th\u01b0, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb ung th\u01b0, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ec7nh kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta t\u1eebng li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi n\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c th\u00ec n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9c. Thu\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y n\u00ean \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y? Trong n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con, ch\u00fang con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3, ch\u00fang con tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 con c\u00f2n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm n\u00f3 th\u00ec con kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u0111ang g\u00e2y n\u00ean \u0111au kh\u1ed5. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang con.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i, ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng? M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n m\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u00e2u th\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn c\u1ee7a th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 n\u00f3. R\u1ed3i trong l\u00fac \u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ecdi n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 n\u00f3. T\u00e2m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u1ea3i lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea5y c\u1eafp, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7 \u0111\u00e1nh thu\u1ebf, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i n\u00e0o th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i lo m\u1ea5t. V\u00ec th\u1ebf khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t n\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111au kh\u1ed5. V\u00e0o l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9, trong l\u00fac t\u00edch l\u0169y b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, hao t\u1ed5n: n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi \u0111au kh\u1ed5. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, th\u00ec th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed3n truy x\u00e9t, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t n\u00f3, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n g\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng bao nhi\u00eau th\u1ef1c ph\u1ea9m th\u01a1m ngon th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0103n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng n\u00f3, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n b\u00ecnh an h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00ecnh an nghe kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u00fang con thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an \u1ea5y h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n lo\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 ch\u00fang con c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y th\u1eadt r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng. Khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh trong s\u1ef1 tham mu\u1ed1n trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 c\u00e0ng l\u00fac c\u00e0ng \u0111au kh\u1ed5. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cao qu\u00fd, nh\u1eefng B\u1ed3 T\u00e1t, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi tham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean m\u00e3n m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf ta c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111i theo con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cao qu\u00fd th\u00ec s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu so v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eb3ng \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chu\u1ed7i nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 k\u1ebf \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t sinh trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con. Con tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 con l\u00e0 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Con c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3. M\u1eb9 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con \u0111\u1ecdc v\u00e0 vi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con b\u1edbt gi\u1eadn d\u1eef b\u1ee1i b\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129: \u201cN\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.\u201d Ch\u00fang con kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ra sao?\u00a0\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00e2n h\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trong b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u1edf trong t\u00e2m th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m n\u00ean n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb t\u1ea9y tr\u1eeb. B\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec, n\u00f3 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0103n kh\u00f4ng ngon, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe sa s\u00fat. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t \u2013 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt n\u00f3. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng n\u00f3.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u00fang con kh\u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con. Ch\u00fang con th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 m\u00ea l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 s\u00e2n h\u1eadn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y th\u00ec c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n b\u1edfi n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh v\u00ec n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh th\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh th\u00ec t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau. To\u00e0n b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00e2ng \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1edfi l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m.\u00a0 N\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 ta kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ta th\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu t\u1edbi ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay \u2013 ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft ngay sau khi sinh ra. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edd l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ebft, tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng ta.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khi ta c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb Th\u1ea7y, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a ta th\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ec1u nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y ta. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng th\u00e2n quy\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ta, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u00e2m ta d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu, l\u00e0m t\u00e2m ta thanh th\u1ea3n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi ta \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1eady v\u00e0o h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Khi ta l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00e0ng l\u00fac ta c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb \u00e1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf trong to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ta, b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00ea<\/span>u. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c. Nh\u01b0ng s\u00e2n h\u1eadn th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t \u2013 n\u00f3 h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7, h\u1ee7y di\u1ec7t s\u1ef1 ngon mi\u1ec7ng. N\u00f3 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi ta, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ta, v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 lu\u1eadn l\u00fd h\u1ecdc th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0a Ng\u00e0i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n t\u00e1nh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m ta th\u00ec trong s\u00e1ng. Ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang con m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang con n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi t\u00e2m ta b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi d\u00f2ng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng khi ta ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o t\u00e2m m\u00ecnh th\u00ec d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c ni\u1ec7m t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u00e0ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. C\u00e1c t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong m\u1ecdi l\u00fac nh\u01b0ng ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd, v\u00ec th\u1ebf khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng th\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0, khi n\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ecb tr\u1ed9n l\u1eabn v\u1edbi b\u00f9n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u1eafc n\u00f3 l\u00ean th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u1ea3y ra \u2013 n\u00f3 v\u1eabn b\u1ecb pha tr\u1ed9n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec h\u1ebft th\u00ec b\u00f9n l\u1eafng xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc trong s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00e2m ta th\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i an t\u0129nh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1c xen v\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng \u2013 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ni\u1ec7m t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o \u2013 th\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 trong s\u00e1ng. H\u00e3y hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ea9y x\u00f3a.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft hay x\u00fac ch\u1ea1m b\u1eb1ng tay ho\u1eb7c \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c m\u00e0u s\u1eafc hay h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m ta r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u2013 t\u00e2m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn n\u00f3.\u00a0 No la m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 trong s\u00e1ng trong \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng\u00a0<\/span><\/em><\/span>n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn n\u1ebfn.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh an \u0111\u1ecbnh, hay shin\u00e9, \u0111\u1ec3 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. N\u00f3 r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o hay kh\u00f4ng. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng. S\u1ef1 bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u1eb1m xu\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng tuy\u1ec7t h\u1ea3o nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 trong t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 sinh k\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 v.v.., m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111i v\u00e0o n\u00f3 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n bu\u00f4ng l\u1ecfng. Nh\u1edd ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 trong s\u00e1ng. T\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t, b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea5t t\u00e2m, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t \u00edch l\u1ee3i.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0a Ng\u00e0i, ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ta th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 d\u00f2ng truy\u1ec1n th\u1eeba, th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng L\u1ea1t ma c\u1ee7a ta, th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00e2m linh, v\u00e0 ta d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Gi\u00e1o l\u00fd c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sai l\u1ea7m b\u1edfi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb di\u1ec5n d\u1ecbch kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd v\u1ec1 t\u00e1nh Kh\u00f4ng.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ea1t Lai L\u1ea1t Ma th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed9 ph\u00e1i v\u00e0 \u0111ang khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u nh\u1eefng truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Ng\u00e0i khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u00fang con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1ea7m l\u1eabn? Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd m\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i ban cho ch\u00fang con h\u00f4m nay nghe h\u01a1i kh\u00e1c nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd m\u00e0 c\u00e1c L\u1ea1t ma Gelug c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ban cho, v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang con ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec3u kh\u00e1c nhau nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1eabn t\u1edbi c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c. Th\u1ef1c ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb Th\u1ea7y c\u1ed5 x\u01b0a kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tinh th\u1ea7n b\u1ed9 ph\u00e1i. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ea1o s\u01b0 Thangtong Gyalpo c\u00f3 500 guru (\u0110\u1ea1o s\u01b0): Nyingma, Sakya, Gelug \u2013 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Trong th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 19, Jamyang Khyentse Wangpo v\u00e0 Jamgon Kongtrul l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed9 ph\u00e1i; c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 th\u1ecd nh\u1eadn, c\u00e1c ng\u00e0i c\u00f2n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch h\u01a1i kh\u00e1c nhau, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn nhau. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i thu\u1ed1c kh\u00e1c nhau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, lo\u1ea1i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Con c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 x\u1eed. Con g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ni c\u00f4 T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng tu h\u00e0nh \u1edf Dharamsala, v\u00e0 khi con h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u00f4 n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng.\u201d C\u00f4 c\u0169ng n\u00f3i c\u00f4 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd t\u1eeb tu vi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1i Bi\u1ec7n ch\u1ee9ng, l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i Gelug. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con th\u00ec d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ngay khi v\u1ecb Th\u1ea7y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ea3ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e1nh Kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh xem n\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi L\u1ea1t Ma Tsong Khapa hay Milarepa, hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed9 ph\u00e1i, theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i n\u00e0o?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u1ede b\u00ecnh di\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u00ec c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch s\u00e2u xa th\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 nghe nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7m. Ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, v\u00e0 th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t khi coi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho ch\u00fang con?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t b\u1edfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nhau. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau. Th\u1ef1c ra, m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i thu\u1ed1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 cho m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt \u2013 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i thu\u1ed1c kh\u00e1c nhau, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng y h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec\u00a0 y h\u1ecdc T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u h\u01a1n, trong khi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh kh\u00e1c th\u00ec y h\u1ecdc Trung Qu\u1ed1c hay y h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ee9ng\u00a0 (allopathic medicine) c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00f4i nh\u1edb h\u1ed3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u1edf Dharamsala c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i b\u00e1c s\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00dac, v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u khi c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng y h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c; h\u1ecd kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng cho r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1eefa tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u00e0i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ec7nh, nh\u01b0 b\u1ec7nh vi\u00eam gan, th\u00ec r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng y khoa T\u00e2y T\u1ea1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh lao ph\u1ed5i, th\u00ec d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t l\u00e0 y h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ee9ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e2m linh th\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, b\u1edfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u00ed l\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00e2m linh kh\u00e1c nhau, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 gi\u00e1o l\u00fd kh\u00e1c nhau th\u00ec c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd, Kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 Kim C\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eeba th\u00ec r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u. \u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p kh\u00e1c nhau. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tranh lu\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 tranh lu\u1eadn, b\u00e1c b\u1ecf l\u1eabn nhau. Nh\u1edd ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ta hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129a r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u. V\u00ec th\u1ebf t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nghe gi\u00e1o l\u00fd t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c nhau th\u00ec r\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Th\u01b0a Ng\u00e0i, v\u1ec1 guru, ch\u00fang con th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 guru nh\u01b0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0110\u1ebf, ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi to\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi con.\u00a0 Ch\u00fang con ngh\u0129: \u201c\u1ed2, t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm, ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 guru, ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00eam, ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ecd.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang con l\u00e0 ch\u00fang con \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u00e0i l\u00e0m, v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i, \u0111\u00fang th\u1ebf. Guru n\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m t\u00ednh t\u1ed1i thi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a guru l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, gi\u1edbi lu\u1eadt t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng bi m\u1eabn. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e0nh vi t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a v\u1ecb \u1ea5y n\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

L\u1ea1t Ma Tsong Khapa n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn guru nh\u01b0 v\u1ecb Ph\u1eadt, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng tr\u00edch d\u1eabn kh\u00e1c nhau t\u1eeb c\u00e1c b\u1ea3n v\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng \u0110\u1ee9c Dorje Chang (Kim C\u01b0\u01a1ng Tr\u00ec) \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0i s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 guru.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9 trong Kim C\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eeba m\u1edbi c\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng trong truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u0110\u1ea1i th\u1eeba c\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng guru nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb Ph\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb Ph\u1eadt. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng qu\u00e1n \u0111\u1ea3nh tr\u1ecdng y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd Kim C\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eeba, th\u00ec khi \u1ea5y guru c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, theo truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ph\u00e1p guru yoga c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o Kim C\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eeba. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i lo\u1ea1i th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh coi guru nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb Ph\u1eadt.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Con c\u00f3 nghe c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfc r\u0103ng ch\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u00e1 l\u1ee3i Ph\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng do b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ee9c tin n\u00ean b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u2013 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3n l\u1ed9 trong chi\u1ebfc r\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu con nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt hi\u1ec3n l\u1ed9 trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y v\u00ec l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c c\u1ee7a con?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i, \u0111\u00fang th\u1ebf \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng s\u00f9ng m\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed. Tr\u00ean c\u0103n b\u1ea3n th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 Ph\u1eadt t\u00e1nh, v\u00ec th\u1ebf cho d\u00f9 guru c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng to\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, nh\u01b0ng t\u1eeb kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng s\u00f9ng m\u1ed9, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt b\u1edfi ngay c\u1ea3 guru c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 Ph\u1eadt t\u00e1nh. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en, c\u00e1c \u0110\u1ea5ng To\u00e0n Tr\u00ed, ch\u01b0 Ph\u1eadt, hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, hi\u1ec3n l\u1ed9 trong th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y\u00a0 v\u00e0 ch\u00fac ph\u00fac nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0\u00a0 v\u1eady sao?<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf. B\u1edfi guru \u0111ang th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, \u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00ed c\u1ee5 gi\u1eefa m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n. V\u1edbi kh\u00ed c\u1ee5 n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00ed c\u1ee5 n\u00e0y, m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edd guru b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt. V\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u00ecn guru nh\u01b0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt. V\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n t\u00f4i th\u00ec guru c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, b\u1edfi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nghe Ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i, do \u0111\u00f3 ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edd guru b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc. V\u00ec th\u1ebf theo t\u00f4i guru quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ban ph\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 do b\u1edfi ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 ta \u2013 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i chi\u1ebfc r\u0103ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i, ph\u1ea3i.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Nguy\u00ean t\u00e1c: \u201cNature of Mind\u201d, Ven. Robina Courtin interviewed His Holiness Sakya Trizin in Boston in June 2000. T\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Mandala 3\/2001<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

B\u1ea3n d\u1ecbch Vi\u1ec7t ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a Thanh Li\u00ean<\/i><\/p>\n

Thich Minh Tue<\/p>\n

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